I informed my Company (SME) when I’m 5 months pregnant. My boss (and his girlfriend HR) isn’t happy about that and has been gradually giving me shit for the last few months. He is a middle aged man but due to this strained situationship, has became extremely childish.
For one, whenever I get in to the office, he’s always putting on a sour face. I greet him and my colleagues in the morning and he simply ignores me. The HR is exactly the same. Ignores me completely and I think can’t stand being in the same room as I am - often goes home or out during the day.
And as I say, things get worse overtime. She literally has an argument with me over email for the smallest thing (pokes her head into my work) and questions me about everything. I literally spend a minimum of 3 hours just replying to her per day - and then she asks why I’m working so slowly? On top of that, my boss will often join in to this email saga.
Oh right, and we were scheduled to have a team building session last month. She decided that she doesn’t want to have it and told everyone that they will do it in another 3 months time (after I go on maternity leave).
Since I’ve informed them of my pregnancy, I haven’t had short of snarky remarks too. HR once cursed my unborn child and said that people nowadays are prone to having miscarriages. I don’t even know how she can say that, given that she’s a mom herself.
I have still tried to maintain my attitude in the office and speak to them courteously despite them acting like this (and luckily I don’t have much one on one sessions with them). But honestly, I’m mentally sick and tired of them acting this way. If they’ve already made up their mind to terminate me, they should just grow the balls to terminate me…
Give me some ideas on how I can turn the situation around and be less mentally drained around them.